Holy cow, guys. You're makin' me a headache.
I think both sides of this are of one mind - if you want to do your own list or project, do it.
The rest is just a big misunderstanding based on the vagaries of internet communication where Mosc's post sounded harsher than he intended.
As far as the NetEA project (and it is also a fan project), we gave epilgrim and Jaldon the greenlight as army champions because they have been working on the lists for a while, put a great deal of effort into reconciling them, and by most accounts were doing quite a good job of creating playable, fun lists. If you want to participate with Jaldon and epilgrim, do it. I'm sure they will welcome the additional input and I'm equally sure they will take into account this poll as they make decisions on how to move forward - not the determining factor, but taken into account. In the end they are the arbiters for the NetEA Squat/Demiurg list, but only for that list.
As far as Mosc's overarching grand publication crusade, that's his baby. He shelled out a lot of cash and a lot of effort to get set up to do his thing. The prize for that is he gets to make the call. As with the others, he doesn't just run off and do things without considering what people are interested in. He has a long track record of accepting suggestions. However, he's made the call to work with Jaldon and epilgrim and their project using their particular philosophy. Mosc informing people of that decision does not constitute him saying "we're doing something else so you can't do that." It's just a clear explanation of where he and the other project participants stand so others can decide whether or not they want to be involved.
So I see them allied with the Squats. As I said before ... but having them as Tau allies has some merit too, IMO ... 
I guess I'm from the KISS school of thought. And having them as Squat and/or Tau allies seems like a good idea without reinventing the wheel. But as always DWWFY ... 
Now pass the popcorn & Koolaid ! 
