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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 1:12 am 
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>, I expected that he would believe it was a PG-bash and would not want to read it.


Well, maybe he should wonder why that is such a popular pastime.

That man s$%^s me to tears and isn't worth my time discussing. I'm glad he is mellowing and, yes, he does come out with some valid and well-thought out ideas, not all of them are his, but he claims them regardless (yes, I speak from experience).

- As a valued playtester: yes.
- As a moderator: no.
- As a bloke I would punch in the face if he spoke to me in person the way he posts: certainly! :angry:

But that's probably too many years of military conditioning colouring my view! :;):

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 2:02 am 
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Hi!

The main thing keeping me from pushing to see change is PG. The guy's obviously had some pretty negative life experiences and I think he'd take it pretty hard if he was removed. I'd rather see him either make significant changes or leave in a peaceful manner. Yes, I know I'm full of wishful thinking. I'd rather the guy had someone give him a chance and treat him with some consideration.


This may be my "unsympathic New York side" talking, but why should you or anyone else CARE about whatever "bad life experiences" he's had. That is NO excuse for abrasive behaviour. No one has the right to act like a "poo-poo head" (sorry I just HAD to use that one since you first said it :p ), because he may had a less than fortunate ride getting to this point in life.

I think that your beyond wishful thinking, his personality traits as exhibited in his posts show no real middle ground or "compromise" to be reached. You either put up with what and who he is or you get him "removed."

I'm willing to take over the moderatorship, but would rather someone else did since if I take over, it would probably be a personal afront to him.


Regardless of WHO takes over, he knows all those principal characters who had a say in it happening, so he WILL take it personally no matter who gets to slap the moderator title on.

You're probably right. I'm just not sure if I want to be a member of the forums if we get PG in full "abrasive" form. In real life, I give such people a wide berth every time they get that way.

Well, thats no doubt your choice, but sometimes you DO have to be somewhat "not-nice" and do what's best for the playtest forum and have him removed, because, after all, you have as much right to be on the list as anyone else and to ENJOY it. Anything that detracts from that should be changed, if not removed.

I don't expect him to stop being himself, but I do expect him to treat others with the same civility he would like for himself.

What IF being himself is to continue to do what you dislike?

What will you do then?

Seriously, Maksim, it all comes down to how much you care to be on those forums. If at the end of the day it doesn't mean much, then walk away, you've got better things to do.

But if you do care or have a different vision of how it should be you'll need to change it and it would be unrealistic to expect those involved in the "change" will be happy about it, understand it or otherwise be "irked" by it.

As Jimbo said "you can't please everyone all the time," so don't try.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 2:26 am 
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Maksim,

I was going to answer your questions but I realized this is not about me. At the moment the real issue for you is you. By that I mean, I have to live with my feelings and you have to live with yours.

You have received some good advice from many respectable people in this thread. If I was you, I would walk away from this thread and spend a day or two thinking about where you want this to go next.

- What is within your control and what is not?

- What is your final goal?

- Is it worth the emotional investment?

- Is it worth the time?

- Is your goal achievable at this time?

Once you do spend the time, you will know the path you need to take. And at that point, Primarch is right, do not care about the other issues. Focus on the final goal and move forward.

As Primarch said ?...it all comes down to how much you care to be on those forums. If at the end of the day it doesn't mean much, then walk away, you got better things to do. But if you do care or have a different vision of how it should be you'll need to change it and it would be unrealistic to espect those involved in the "change" will be happy about it, understand it or otherwise be "irked" by it.?

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 2:58 am 
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Dafrca,

I was going to answer your questions but I realized this is not about me. At the moment the real issue for you is you. By that I mean, I have to live with my feelings and you have to live with yours.


I really wish you would answer... :D

I could use your feedback because I value it so much, "doo-doo head." :p

You have received some good advice from many respectable people in this thread. If I was you, I would walk away from this thread and spend a day or two thinking about where you want this to go next.


I agree. The discussion has been good and the advice enormously applicable.

I probably will spend an extra few days to think about it, but my mind was pretty much made up some time ago. When we first exchanged correspondence, I had an idea of what to do. The time between that iem and now has been spent examining the issues and trying the alternatives first.

I'm pretty well prepped and ready to go for if and when I decide to take action.

- What is within your control and what is not?

I don't know if it's in my control, but seeing some moderator changes is definitely "do-able."

- What is your final goal?

My final goal is to see the official E-A Playtest Forums become a more pleasant place to chat again.

I'd rather not have the mood level of the forum dependant on whether PG is affable at the moment.

He's told me several times that he was in a cruddy mood when a lot of his worst moves have occurred. Neal is right that some positive changes have occurred, but I don't see "the leopard losing its' spots altogether."

- Is it worth the emotional investment?

I'm "chatting it up" heavily, but I'm not really that emotionally invested in the issue. It matters, but not as much as work, Epic40k.co.uk (Epic's new home), or things that really make a difference. I probably sound "touchy-feely" at times and I care, but I'm not really that emotional.

Ultimately, this forum is more comfy and the other one is both optional and extra. I like to keep up with it because good stuff comes down the pipeline, but the chat is much warmer and open here. Of course, we don't always discuss E-A rules here like mostly happens over there.

- Is it worth the time?

The time investment isn't that bad. It would be about two hours of typing, E-mailing, and editing (give or take) and then the commitment to moderate if I'm chosen, but that really isn't a problem since I already read the posts. Moderating and reading the posts are just about the same thing for me.

- Is your goal achievable at this time?

Yes.

Once you do spend the time, you will know the path you need to take. And at that point, Primarch is right, do not care about the other issues. Focus on the final goal and move forward.

Thanks for the advice.

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Primarch,

This may be my "unsympathic New York side" talking, but why should you or anyone else CARE about whatever "bad life experiences" he's had. That is NO excuse for abrasive behaviour. No one has the right to act like a "poo-poo head" (sorry I just HAD to use that one since you first said it ?), because he may had a less than fortunate ride getting to this point in life.


I'm my brother's keeper... ?:;):

Seriously speaking, I do feel a responsibility to treat others well and if everyone felt and acted on that responsibility, we'd live in a different sort of world.

I like the way "New York" has "internalized" itself in your thinking! ?:p

Thanks for the advice.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 3:39 am 
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Quote (primarch @ 19 2003 Aug.,11:02)
As Jimbo said "you can't please everyone all the time," so don't try.


Yes but as PG has proved you CAN piss off most of the people ALL the time ???

There is so much more to say on the subject, but it would accomplish little and moist of it has been well articulated here in a less emotional way than I would.  It has been a calming influence if anything!

Seriously, good luck with it - I applaud your standing up to be counted and putting your time and effort where your feelings and thoughts lie. I look forward to a friendlier forum more condusive to the aim of playtesting Epic Armageddon. To put it bluntly - putting the fun back into E-A boards and negating some unproductive aggressive attitudes

Kudos to you, Maksim.

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Man, Oh Darn! (Edited!). I wish I hadn't started this thread since I am not sure PG is worth 10-11 pages of posts and I have a feeling it's not over yet. ?

Maksim,
You are a far too nice guy and someone everyone should emulate the qualities you've shown this far, but I am just not wired to do it. Everyone gets to decide who they want to be, regardless of whatever  doo-doo (Edited!) you've had to deal with in life.

Unfortunately, I have had a bit of a tough life but thats the way my cards were dealt, and I might unleash something on someone who upsets me, but you don't see me acting like a jerk to everyone. The only sides I choose are the ones that respect me and others, and the ones that don't. You have to take responsibility for your actions, and if PG is trying to be better, fine, but I'm not holding my breath.

What gang could he possibly be in?

Are you talking about Opsmed-whatever?

I haven't had any problems with him...

Also, against better judgement, I ordered a few things from GW's mail order :L , just some Battlefleet Gothic stuff ?:o , and I only got half of my order even thought the order sheet said it was complete!

Can GW get any of my darn orders right??

AAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 4:32 am 
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Quote (Gandalf the Grey @ 19 2003 Aug.,13:01)
Also, against better judgement, I ordered a few things from GW's mail order :L , just some Battlefleet Gothic stuff ?:o , and I only got half of my order even thought the order sheet said it was complete! Can GW get any of my darn orders right?


Took your life into your own hands there, mate! ?

They get there in the end, and some guys end up with some nice bonus stuff for their troubles! ?:)

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Neal,

I see you quoted me,on page 9 of this thread, but my system can't read any text after anyone's quotes.

So I'm not sure what you said? ?

However, I imagine Maksim as our well-meaning editor, added "(women)" to my post.

That being said, you and I both being former Grunts, know that there are NO females in Infantry, Armor or most FA units. ?

So I'm guessing that is what you commented on. ??? ?

O.K. guys, continue to bash! :laugh:

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>That being said, you and I both being former Grunts, know >that there are NO females in Infantry, Armor or most FA >units.


This was the same for the Australian Army when I was a Gunner. In the Navy though the only units that dont have females are Clearance Divers. Girls serve in every capacity in every other vessel, including Submarines (my Sister is currently the Navigating Officer of a submarine...)

Just some random OT trivia...  :)

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Maksim,

You've made my post much more dramatic than it needed to be...

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Gandalf,

Maksim,
You've made my post much more dramatic than it needed to be...


Sorry. I probably have too much fun doing this anyway!  :D

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Quote (Tas @ 19 2003 Aug.,05:59)
>That being said, you and I both being former Grunts, know >that there are NO females in Infantry, Armor or most FA >units.


This was the same for the Australian Army when I was a Gunner. In the Navy though the only units that dont have females are Clearance Divers. Girls serve in every capacity in every other vessel, including Submarines (my Sister is currently the Navigating Officer of a submarine...)

Just some random OT trivia... ?:)

Australia has a sub?  ???

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>Australia has a sub?
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Six (6) actually!

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2003 10:33 am 
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Quote (MaksimSmelchak @ 19 2003 Aug.,02:58)
My final goal is to see the official E-A Playtest Forums become a more pleasant place to chat again.

I don't think that's going to happen in the short term...

Maksim, my advice is walk away and ignore the Playtest Forum!

If it isn't working for you, then I wouldn't bother putting in the effort anymore.

If certain individuals are "annoying" you then don't worry about it and walk away.

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